Monday, December 7, 2009

"Graduation"

I was able to attend my Aunt Diane's "graduation" from this life last Friday afternoon. Her "sweatheart" husband, my Uncle Mack didn't want to call it a funeral, but a graduation. . .. she is moving on to something better. She is an amazing woman and a great example of enduring to the end. I have great memories of visits at her home, learning my family history from her. . . . She helped me know who I am and the heritage I have. It was a great service, celebrating her life. It made me want to be a better person. . .

My Mom and Dad were not able to attend, due to being on their mission in Germany, so I was the only one there to represent my Mom for her sister. My Uncle Bob was there with my Aunt Corene. He gave a really nice talk about Diane's early years. His daughter, my cousin, Janet was also there with Corene's sweet little mom, Barbara. My Aunt Sherry and her husband, Uncle Jeff, are also out on a mission, so my cousing Stephenie was there for her mom, with her husband, Andy.
My Uncle Mack, spoke words of Graditude at the dedication of the grave. Very hearfelt and sweet. He also talked about when they picked out the casket a few years ag0, and how he felt it was just perfect for her.
I actually really enjoyed being at the funeral, reuniting with some family, visiting, and hearing a little about Diane's life. I couldn't help but think that if she was there in life,he would be walking around, introducing me to all her wonderful grandkids, children, and in-laws. I didn't know her kids very well, but I remember her talking about them, showing me pictures of them, and how much she loved them all and how proud she was of all of them. I could tell from each of them how much they love and will miss her. She is a great example to me.

8 comments:

Julia Kelly said...

Thanks for this post Kristie. Glad you were able to go and represent our family.

Heidi said...

It sounds like it was a lovely service. I am glad you were able to connect with family!

mycattripoli said...

so good to hear of wonderful people like this woman- who was loved by you- i like the idea of 'graduating'

Shannon said...

I, too, loved the idea of a "graduation" instead of funeral. I wish we had been able to come to honor her. When we were first married and living in Provo, Mack and Diane had us over for dinner a couple of times. I remember her being very warm and kind. Thanks for posting this.

becky said...

Looks like a very nice service. I also remember Aunt Diane as warm, friendly and easy to talk to. Down to earth.

Linda Toolson said...

Thanks for posting this, Kristie. How I wish I could have been there. It is really too bad now, knowing I am coming home anyway. We knew this problem was brewing and actually talked to the mission president about coming home last week.

Shareen said...

Thanks for going, taking pictures & posting Kristie.

Jaime said...

What a wonderful tribute to your aunt. She sounds like a wonderful person.